I'm old-school. I don't pursue men. It's their job to pursue women. I think men, in general, are more interested in women who aren't running after them.
If we were dating, I would cook him some great meals. To me, nothing says more about a woman's real feelings for a man than the way she cooks for him. Everytime I make a meal for someone, I view it as giving a gift---I put so much of myself into it, it is really like giving a part of me.
And I'd always have a nice cognac on hand. There is something so cozy and intimate about having a glass of cognac in front of a fire.