Hey it was never about the team Edward vs Team Jacob. It was about the way she spoke to him. She made a very silly comment about his hair implying that was the only thing of importance about him. That's my take on it. Everyone is entitled to love which ever character they like from the book. She came across as a snob and very immature, Rob was very gracious and funny with his reply and probably dismissed it away without a further care in the world and I think we should all do the same.