These are not my words, but I wanted to know from real Twi-Hards....
Lessons for men by Edward is not how to seduce a woman, but how to get her to want to seduce you!!
Be Present: Be there in our dreams and share yours with us. Gift us yourself and you will be rewarded.
Touch: Caress with affection, to comfort, to soothe, to talk without words.
Smolder: Look into our eyes like you want to learn us, then ask us what we 'er thinking. We're going to tell you anyway, so you might as well get credit for it.
Kiss: Tenderly, urgently, to communicate, and for no reason at all. Kiss in a way that is as easy as breathing, but takes your breath away. With an earerness not far from violence. Now, dosen't that sound seductive?
Do all this well and often, without an ulterior motive, and you just might find yourself the "sparkling" object of a shivering obsession of someone you love, with the craving for each other is like an addiction, making it physically painfull to be apart.
Bella's just the middleman, a stand in for ourselves to vicariously experience the thralls of first love, once again for the firs time. Consumed with an insatiable hunger, devouring everything "Twilight".