i can't really agree with that. Bella didn't want to change him couse he was wronge, she just wanted to make a compromise. look, Bella sacrificed a lot for Edward, and i think he understood that. I don't think he would have been happy to do everything in his way without asking her opinions. and let's not forget that Edward didn't want to change her and sleep with her only becouse he was afraid about her soul and about hurting her. if she agrees and doesn't mind about it - how can he say no? it's her life, it's her choice.
im not trying to justify her actions, im just saying there's no wrong or right here. bella fell in love with jacobe, that's a fact. what makes guys "players" is what they do with it. if they just keep lying and promising things they can't keep - they are players. bella's problem is a whole different case. she made sure jacobe knows they can't be together and never let him think otherwise. he knew it and still didn't give up. that's his problem, not bella's.
She used Jacob in New Moon to take her mind off Edward,even though she knew that doing so would give him the wrong impression and it would just fuel his ego and his attempt to get her to love him.And YET,she wants him to quit bugging her.Whats wrong with this picture???come on(I take it you didn't bother to read that blog)