ADVICE??IS IT GOOD??

FOR ME IT IS GOOD ADVICING SOMEONE WHO IS IN PAIN…..BUT SOMETHIMES IT IS GOOD TOO IF A PERSON WILL LEARN IN HIS/HER OWN PAIN/LONELY TIMES!!!SOMETHIMES THEY MUST REALIZE IT TOO…BUT WHAT DO YOU PREFER???THE FIRST OR THE SECOND???FOR ME BOTH,IF ADVICING IS THE WAY TO MAKE HER/HIM FEEL BETTER,GO ADVICE HIM/HER THE THING THAT YOU KNOW THAT IS RIGHT……. :-D