Also,I just have to add that--even though you don't agree with my opinion,you should respect it.Most guys arent even fans of Twilight simply because they think its a quote-unquote "chick story.And even if they are fans,they wouldnt care enough about the GIRL's feelings to read so deeply into this situation.So you have to give me some credit lol
you can switch sides after you have thought it through.Believe it or not,I used to be on Jacob's side,but after I thought about it carefully,I switched.But alright,thats your decision.I respect that:-)But I think It was more fun for me because I proved my point lol.Ok,talk to you tomorrow,God bless
True,she could have found another way.But thats the ONLY time she did that.He,on the other hand,persisted even when he knew she was in love with Edward.When you love someone,you dont keep trying to get them to love you when you know they are in love with someone else.When you love someone as much as Jacob claimed he loved Bella,you have to want them to be happy,even if its with someone else.By him always insisting on persuing her,all he was doing was hurting her--and she let him know that.
That was too soon to know WHO she was in love with.You can't blame her for wanting to know the truth about something so mysterious.And she did flirt with him,but not to manipulate him.She was still trying to sort out her feelings.Even after Jacob knew it was inevitable that Bella would end up with Edward,he STILL didnt give it up
But thats just it,Bella never was in love with him.You don't have to SHOW someone who they are in love with,they just know it.And Bella made it clear who she was in love with.And like I said,sometimes love means NOT doing something when you know it will put that person in danger--even if its something they really want.Its not that she never gave him a chance,she didn't want to lead him on.Leading him on would only hurt him worse in the end when she marries Edward.She cared about Jacob too much to do that to him.She loved Jacob,but she wasn't IN love with him
She didn't want to lead him on and make him think he ever had a chance.She had to be honest.Caring about someone also means telling them the truth even if the truth hurts.In the end,lying hurts more.She didn't want to lie to Jacob and tell him she loved him.Jacob could learn a thing or 2 from that.If he had just said "no Bella,I won't fix those bikes.It's wrckless and you could get yourself killed",then Bella would have come to her senses.
I guess I just cant stand when someone can't take a hint lol.And Bella clearly told Jacob that if she had to choose,it would be Edward.But he was stubborn.Edward even THANKED Jacob for protecting Bella when he didnt.And Jacobs smart-ass response was "no you didn't".He wasn't even man enough to just say "you're welcome".He resented Bellas love for Edward so much that he couldnt swallow his pride.It takes alot of integrity to do what Edward did when he thanked Jacob for protecting her.Integrity is the mark of a real man,Thats something Jacob doesnt have.Edward deserves Bella alot more.
Well I don't recall him apologizing very much.Only AFTER she busted her head open crashing on that bike(he should never have let her ride it to begin with,or atleast ride it WITH her a few times first).All I'm saying is that Edward only did things because he loved Bella,he even DIDNT do some things because he loved her.Sometimes loving someone means doing whats best for them.Even if its not what they want.Jacob did SOME things because he genuinely cared about her,but most of the things he did were just because he was being selfish.He only cared about being with her no matter how much it put her in danger.